Hypersex?

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    enigma95
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    Greeting for all of ya
    I never shared this before, but finally I want to especially for this site. I’m a young man, age 22. For a long time, I got addicted to masturbation (since I was a kid). I do it more than twice (depend on my scedule) and it has been my darkest secret. And, now I begin to cannot hold back my self to trying sex. FYI, I’m still virgin as I never sex before, but I nearly do it few times before. Everytime I seen a hot girl in front of me, I begin to losing control and think dirty. I want to ask you Harriet, Am I a Hyper?

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    Hey Enigma95!

    A lot of people masturbate a lot. Doing it twice a day isn’t uncommon at all! When you’re young and you’re hormones are kicking in, it can be hard to think about other things. It’s just part of growing up. So don’t worry about that. it’s only an addiction if you’re doing it so often that you neglect other things in your life, leading to poorer health.

    When you meet someone new, it’s easy to think perverted things. Especially if they are attractive. Part of maturing and growing up is to learn not to let those thoughts dominate and rule over you. For example, sometimes I meet a guy or a girl and I think “wow, they’re really good looking! I wonder what they look like naked?” But those thoughts only last a second. I then talk to them, and I concentrate on other things.

    It can be harder for you since you haven’t had sex yet. A lot of people imagine sex as this amazing, fantastic great, thing, and they idolise it. It can be fantastic and great, but it’s probably not going to be how you are currently imagining it. This also leads you to idolising or fetishising girls you meet and are attracted to. Hopefully after you have had sex these strong reactions you are currently having will die down.

    Of course you should only have sex with someone when you feel ready and comfortable. You and your partner should trust and care about each other. The first time will stay with you, so don’t rush into it, or feel pressured. Take your time, calm down, and concentrate on being a good person.

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    alicemut
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    #12524

    draconis
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    You’re biggest problem is you’re self-esteem and confidence. That is what is probably what is at the root of what is causing you problems. The act of thinking dirty thoughts about somebody on it’s own is a harmless activity as long as you don’t tell them. The worry and problem sound more like something you are projecting onto yourself. If you don’t act like you are thinking dirty thoughts then there is no harm being done.

    You definitely don’t sound like you have a hyper sexuality. If you looked up hyper sexuality disorder it talks about things that people do when tired and stressed out. I was a virgin until I was 24, however losing my virginity didn’t really change my masturbation too much other than that I realized I was not doomed to wanking it for the rest of my life. In fact I still use masturbation and porn as one of my go to methods of stress relief, or to try and keep my sex drive down.

    Sometimes girls can tell sometimes they can’t. What you are thinking is not as important as how you are acting. Nobody can ready another person’s mind, and thinking about sex does not make one perverted. When I was in high school I believed that a girl would be embarrassed by if I even thought of being attracted to her. I always spent half my school day thinking of having sex and sexual fantasies about any girl in that school that I though was pretty at the time, or hadn’t had a fantasy about yet. Even more so in middle school. Nobody thought of me as a pervert if I didn’t start talking about what was going through my head, only I did.

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